February 11, 2009
Unfortunately for famous people, what happens in their lives becomes the topic of public attention and scrutiny. I have mixed feelings about this. Feministing touches on it. I won’t try to deal with it here. But, I thought it important to point out this terrible quote from the friend of the (apparently) famous man (Chris Brown) who recently assaulted his girlfriend, a famous singer.
“Chris is all right. He’s a good kid. He feels very bad that something like this has happened.”
I’m sorry, but “something like this” doesn’t “happen”. When you say “something like this has happened” typically you would be referring to an accident, or something that just sort of “happens.” Like in a passive or unintentional sense. For instance, a tree falls on your neighbor’s fence. Or you accidentally trip someone or you meant to throw the ball across the yard and you instead throw it through a window. When you send your girlfriend to the hospital after beating her, it does not fall into the category of being able to say “he feels very bad that something like this has happened.”
I wish, but will not hold my breath, that everyone involved with this would be able to make this a teachable moment for all the people watching and looking up to famous people. The above quote, of course, does not bode well for how this is likely to play out in the media.
January 24, 2009
When Doug left to go live with Carol and the twins, I must say I was proud of him for doing the right thing. Yet, I could hardly imagine life without him. It was never the same.
Needless to say that this picture warmed my heart. I think we’ll all sleep a little easier knowing that Georgey, I mean Doug, will be with us one more time.
September 13, 2007
So Ms. Britney Spears was all about having a comeback performance at the Video Music Awards. I watched the You Tube version of it and she didn’t do so well. Fine. I think there are more important things to worry about in the world. BUT, what is driving me CRAZY is all this talk that she had a beer belly or looked fat or out of shape. I have heard this on the radio and rumor has it that places like People or Us Magazine are saying such things (of course, ahem, I wouldn’t know because I would not read those things, even if I was procrastinating on studying for a German exam…). But, HELLO? Look at her picture below. I think she looks GREAT. Just because someone goes from a size 2 to a size 6 does not mean they are fat. Anyway, I thought that was important to say. Even if only 12 people read it as compared to the millions who read People.
February 14, 2007
I saw an ad/video clip thing about the new Sports Illustrated Swimsuit edition that is about to come out. I didn’t watch the video, but based on the picture that you see here (which was the “cover” to the video clip), I thought that maybe Sports Illustrated would like some help thinking of creative subtitles for the swimsuit edition. If the whole “Mostly Naked…” one doesn’t work for you, please feel free to suggest others. I was also thinking that “Mostly Naked Starved Sickly Women Who Have Collapsed from Hunger In the Sand” might work too…
While I am being sarcastic, I do mean to be quite serious about the issues that such sickly (not to mention drugged-looking) models bring up about body image, sexuality, and women. I find pictures such as the one below simply irresponsible. Magazines, companies, models, Hollywood, beauty companies, etc. are not somehow immune to the moral responsibility that comes with distributing anything to the public or being in the public eye, particularly when it influences younger people who often do not have the ability or will to be able to sort out the messages that something like the below picture c
onveys. I know that I, raised as a feminist, was still deeply impacted by the images of women and beauty like the one below and I know of no women in my culture who was not similarly impacted. But, as with so many things, I can’t think of a good way to legislate moral responsibility when it comes to bodies, body image, and perceptions of beauty. So I am just left to blog about it and do my little part. Which feels so little sometime. Sigh.
January 10, 2007
This was on feministing.com and I thought it was a great follow-up to the sickly looking picture of Kiera Knightly two posts ago. You can read the full feministing post here.
January 9, 2007
Periodically, I post pictures of celebrities here with some commentary. I feel as though I hardly need to include my commentary here, but I’ll do the work that People magazine would do if they were not falling down on the job: this is just too skinny. I don’t even know who Keira Knightley is, but she is so skinny she doesn’t look good. I know. I know. We should all know this, right? Yet, I know of ZERO women my age that do not struggle with body image and wish to be at least one or two sizes smaller if not 6 sizes smaller. And it is because pictures like this are in People magazine as if it is the most normal thing to be splashing around in the ocean looking like this. It is not normal and this needs to be said more. And internalized (the hard part, of course).
More substantive posts come when rough draft of thesis is done on Friday. But I will post some lovely pictures from our German adventure soon.
Remember – exercise, eat healthily, and love your body the way it was made to look – with some bumps and curves.
September 20, 2006
Okay. This is Scarlett Johansson. An actress. I saw a headline today that said:
Despite Media’s Efforts to Crush Her Confidence, Scarlett Still Likes Her Curvy Body
The first line of the blurb reads, “After having spent the last few years being plopped on magazine covers with headlines like, “Look Great at ANY Size!” Scarlett Johansson still loves her curves.”
Not knowing exactly what she looked like, I assumed she was a bigger actress. Clearly (see photo) she is not “bigger.” I mean, okay, she has curves, but she has probably size 6 curves. This is the person whom the media portrays as big(ish)? I just hate it that when you look like Ms. J. here, this somehow equals curvy which used to mean slightly rounder. Or just rounder, period. This is still skinny to me. Not sickly skinny, but still pretty darn small. The articles that quote Johansson as “loving her curves” essentially are saying, “Wow, that is so great that she has the confidence to still like her body the way it is,” as if it should somehow look different in order to be really worthy of self-confidence. Someone this size should not be “plopped on magazine covers that say ‘Look great at any size!’” Wow, you can even look great if you are a size 6. Now I feel much better. How ’bout you all?
Goddess save us.
June 21, 2006
I know it is a sad day when this picture of Reese Witherspoon makes me happy (ignore the bottom one – I couldn’t detach them). She looks, well, not starved or sickly which seems to be so rare these days for famous women. I hope bodies like this come back into style or even maybe bodies like the painting below. I hate to think of all the girls and women who think they are big or too big or not little enough because they aren’t a size 1. Yay for Venus and Reese.
May 18, 2006
Not that I would ever follow celebrity news, and particularly not that of Brad Pitt who at one point I’m sure had planned to marry me before I found and fell madly in love with W…. but I just really got a kick out of the funny little quote about the impending arrival of Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie’s baby which one New York magazine (I didn’t try to hunt down which one) noted is the most eagerly anticipated birth since Jesus. Wonder if Suri Cruise will be hurt by that? But doesn’t such a quote just strike your funny bone? It did mine. But seriously, even though I think movie stars are overpaid and spoiled, that would really not be fun to be pestered and followed all the time like Mr. Pitt and Ms. Jolie, or Britney Spears or all those other famous people the camara people are always chasing. And, can I just say, while we are at it, that I somehow managed to come across some other celebrity gossip (this stuff just falls in your lap) about Paris Hilton and she seriously seems to be one of the least nice, least worthy, most spoiled celebrities ever. I mean, what is she even a celebrity of? Has she ever done anything? I really don’t like her. Or at least I wouldn’t if I thought it was worth using my not-liking energy toward a celebrity, which I don’t. That is my fluffy post of the month. No more celebrity stuff. Unless of course the Pitt Jolie baby is born and there is something URGENT to report about it…..